when you know you are meant for *more*

Babydoll, you only have two options....

The first one is, of course, to stick to what you know.

To sit there in that heavy, stuck energy and to try and logically think through what that more could be and how you could get it.

Logically, you might think that trying an exercise routine to get your pre-thirties body (and energy) back will be the answer.

Or you might switch jobs, hopeful that leaving the toxic culture of your old colleagues will do the trick and bring that elusive 'job satisfaction' you've heard other people talk about.

Or you might even decide to take a break from it all and go travelling so you can find yourself again...

But take it from me (the person who has quite literally tried all three of these MASSIVE and very common life-changes), none of that will work while you are still sitting in the same energy that created the problem and the stuckness in the first place.

Logically thinking things through and then trying to control the outcome is the very energy that got you here... It's masculine in nature, and that's because we live in a patriarchal, masculine aligned society.

You were taught that taking action, being strong, independent, and making progress is how you achieve in life, and achievement equals success.

But tell me, how's that feeling for you right now?

By most people's standards, you're probably pretty successful:

You've got the house? A well-maintained car? An education? A job that allows you to pay the bills with a bit leftover for treats or holidays?

And yet, you still have this yearning in your blood for more in life.

The answer you are seeking is not found in the external measurements of achievement or success; contrary to what they will tell you.

It's found internally... this is why you feel like you're constantly stuck in this loop of wanting something more, but not knowing what that bigger thing is.

The second option is of course to do something radically different... to shift your energy and take aligned action that feels like it's the perfect fit for you.

And while that sounds quite woo woo and vague, it's actually very simple.

We have two energies running through us at all times, the masculine and the feminine. Unfortunately, you've been told that the feminine is weak, that emotions are wrong, to trust logic over intuition, that reflection leads to inaction and laziness...

Your energy centres are imbalanced, and that's why you feel like you're running out of time, that something is missing, and that you need to constantly take action to try and solve it.

The antidote to this over-abundance of masculine energy is to reconnect with your feminine and your intuition through somatic healing practices so that you can feel safe slowing down (goodbye anxious overachieving), and trust that nudge from your intuition, instead of always obeying your masculine ego telling you to do more.

The problem is not the doing more- you're already doing SO much!

They key to remember here is that taking 1 step or 10 steps in the wrong direction won't win you the race any faster because it's still not going to get you to where you want to go, regardless of how quickly you were hustling.  

It's actually about being more... and the only way to expand your capacity for more, is to start feeling into all that you are in this present moment already.

When you quiet the ego and the logical voices in your mind, and start listening to your intuition (regardless of what anybody else is saying or how crazy it might sound!) you'll start to tune into the true desires that are on your heart.

These desires are the more that you are being pulled towards, and until you're able to acknowledge them and align with them, you'll continue to feel this resistance and heaviness in your everyday life, because the house and the car and the job are not your true purpose in life.

Let me break it down for you one more time:

1️⃣Reconnect with your feminine energy through somatic practices so that you can trust your intuition when it's guiding you

2️⃣Align your everyday habits and actions with your true desires so that when you take that action, you can finally feel the fulfilment, joy and success that you've been craving.

It really gets to be that simple 😉

Just have a look at the testimonials on my website for the proof- once my clients learned how to balance the masculine hustle with the feminine intuition, they've been manifesting dream apartments, leaving toxic relationships, healing decades-old wounds with parents, changing careers, starting business, and those are just the external results.

The internal results are so much more profound: they feel more at ease within themselves, they know exactly what they want and how to go after it, they have the confidence to trust themselves, create boundaries, value their own time and demand more compensation in return for their gifts.

And that's only the tip of the iceberg for the results that I've called in for myself... you've only got to look at my Instagram to see how this strategy has played out in my life 🗺️🚐💃💻💸👙🏝️🧘🏻‍♀️

You already know you're meant for more.

So what option are you going to choose?

Haley 🤍

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